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Support by Email

We have several women (and men) who are prepared to listen and offer support. They are not trained counsellors but they do have a willingness to show you that you are not alone. They have also suffered personal experiences which enable them to sympathise and understand your situation. All our supporters offer their time voluntarily and not in any professional capacity. Please email us if you would like to become a volunteer supporter yourself. Eventually, we hope funding will support a telephone helpline so we can help even more people.

Contact other Mums
You can also contact other mums who might have suffered in the same way as you (perhaps with a physical injury from birth or with a problem with baby’s health).

Information Last Updated: 10-Jun-2009

Our volunteer supporters include:

  • Ann-Marie developed PN PTSD after the traumatic birth of her first child (now 10), but symptoms of this did not appear until her second pregnancy last year. However, due to a very committed team of Obstetricians, Midwives and a Clinical Psychologist, Ann-Marie went on to have a very relaxed and stress free birth. She wants to reassure women that you can have the birth you want, in many cases. Contact Ann-Marie at annmarie.cunningham@btinternet.com
  • Anna is trained Counsellor who has experienced Postnatal Depression. She is willing to offer free face to face counselling. Please contact Anna at: annamstorey@gmail.com
  • Brian's wife experienced a traumatic birth with Brian present for the entire process, he is feeling the effects of the trauma and wishes to speak to other fathers who are feeling the same way. Contact Brian at bgent@rz.uni-leipzig.de
  • Jo had two traumatic births, the first being forceps and episiotomy with son going to neo-natal unit, the second being very close to a crash section (daughter was born vaginally on the theatre table). She had quite severe PND and PTSD after her children were born. Jo is a Doula and is very passionate about pregnancy and childbirth. She is an alternative therapist (aromatherapy, reflexology, relaxation techniques amongst many), and is willing to offer these to any woman who need additional support. Email Jo at: jopowell1@yahoo.co.uk
  • Julia is happy to have email contact to support mums who have had traumatic experiences with premature babies. Julia can be contacted on: juliahames@yahoo.co.uk
  • Karen is a psychotherapist and uses hypnotherapy techniques for detraumatising. She also experienced a very difficult birth experience in 2001 and is now also a HypnoBirthing practitioner, seeing many women who have had negative birth experiences go on to have positive ones. Karen is based near Brighton and is happy to offer telephone and email support - plus provide discounts for face to face sessions if necessary. Contact Karen at karen@hypnobabes.co.uk
  • Lisa is a qualified nurse with a diploma in counselling who had an extremely traumatic birth with her first daughter but then had three further and very positive birth experiences. She is eager to offer support to women currently going through a difficult time and can be contacted at: lisatanner@tiscali.co.uk
  • Martha suffered trauma after birth - PTSD - and she is happy to offer support for women who wish to share their experiences. Email Martha marthajesty@yahoo.com or telephone her on 020-82413483.
  • Nick’s fiancée developed pre-eclampsia which progressed to HELLP Syndrome when being induced. Eighteen months later they are still coming to terms with both post natal depression and birth related PTSD. Nick is open to any form of contact at nick.cook@service-evolution.co.uk
  • Rachel was a younger mum, falling pregnant with her daughter at 17. She developed PND after a quick birth which ended in an episiotomy and ventouse delivery. Rachel is now working as a doula to help support other mums through birth xrachx@gmail.com
  • Rosalind had a long and traumatic first labour, ending in an emergency caesarean section.  As a result, she suffered tokophobia (fear of childbirth) throughout her second pregnancy, which she overcame over time, particularly following a stress-free planned caesarean. She can be contacted at rosalindconnor@gmail.com

Contact other mums

Many women email us asking to be put in contact with women who live close to them or with women who might have suffered in the same way as them (perhaps with a physical injury from birth or with a problem with their baby’s health). In addition, researchers might want to contact women directly for help in connection with the study they are carrying out.

If you would like to appeal for help directly to other women, let us know and we will put your request on this page.

  • Have you experienced Symphysiotomy? This is a surgical procedure to effect an immediate dramatic increase in the size of the pelvic outlet to permit delivery of a baby. The cartilage of the symphysis pubis (where the pubic bones come together) is surgically divided in the procedure which can be a life-saver for the baby. If you would like to others who have experienced symphysiotomy, please contact Helen at enquiries.
  • I'm 25 and have a six year old boy with cerebral palsy, he was born after a very traumatic birth (my 2nd traumatic birth), we live in Dartford, Kent and haven't got any other children as yet and I would like to make contact with other mums in the same position. Please contact Kelly via enquiries.
  • I am 37 and following a difficult delivery am left with bad vaginal and
    uterine prolapses. I have already had surgery, within 18 months of the
    birth, and expect to have more operations in the future. I would love to
    chat to others who have developed a prolapse at a young age. Contact enquiries to get in touch with Susannah.
  • If you would like to make contact with someone else who has experienced faecal incontinence following childbirth please email enquiries.
  • Trudi would like to meet other mothers who have suffered PTSD in the Southern area. Contact her at enquiries.
  • Do we have any mums in Northern Ireland? We have 2 mums looking to find others so please get in touch with enquiries.
  • Lisa is suffering from Tokophobia (fear of childbirth) and would like to make contact with other women who have this problem. Contact Lisa at enquiries.
  • Rebecca is suffering from Tokophobia (fear of childbirth) and would like to make contact with other women who have this problem. Contact Rebecca at enquiries.
  • A couple of mums who have had hysterectomies as the result of a very traumatic birth experience have asked to be put in touch with others in the same situation. Please get in touch with enquiries.
  • We have 2 mums who would like to get in touch with other mums who have had a baby that suffered brain injury during birth. Please get in touch with enquiries.
  • Rebecca would like to contact other women with tokophobia and speak to women who have had tokophobia but been through a normal delivery. Contact Reb@birthtraumaassociation.org.uk
  • Charlotte's first labour involved a long and distressing induction
    which eventually resulted in a traumatic emergency caesarean. She
    hired an independent midwife for her second birth and despite doing
    everything possible to achieve a home vbac she ended up with another
    emergency caesarean and developed PTSD. Charlotte is happy to be
    contacted by anyone who has experienced a traumatic birth, especially
    women who have gone on to have subsequent traumatic deliveries despite best-made plans. She can be contacted at: charlotteleonard@gmail.com

 

 

 
 

 

   
 
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